We attended a wedding a little while ago. It wasn’t that it was on a beach, or that it was a sunset service, or that there were 300 people there, or that the reception was also held on this same beach in a tent, which made this wedding different. What made this wedding different, was that it was the first wedding held in this community since anyone can remember. One of the elders of the community said that he can’t remember a wedding happening there in his lifetime & he’s 70 years old.
The community is a First Nations community that we have been ministering into for the last 15 summers. It was such an honour to not only attend this wedding, but to also play an active part in it. We not only rejoice with the couple who were married, but we also rejoice with the wonderful changes that God is bringing into the lives of the First Nations people who call this community home. This is truly the result of all the thousands of prayers that have been prayed for these people.
In true Paul Harvey style, I want to tell you, “The Rest of the Story”.
In 1996, 1 year after we were married, Lynnea & I led our first summer outreach team to this community. The team was mostly teenagers, with a couple of adults who came along to also take part. That year we mostly assisted community members in doing projects around their homes & other public areas. It was a wonderful outreach, with many new friendships being formed.
One of the last projects that we were asked to assist in, was the cleaning out of a house that had recently been vacated. The house was a mess!! Early in the day we started a fire to burn all the junk that we were hauling out. Some of the guys found some couch cushions in the basement but couldn’t find the couch, so we threw them into the fire. Quite some hours later they came back out & announced, “Hey Graham, remember those cushions we burned this morning? Well we just found the couch!!” There were other things that we found in there too; like a little altar that had been used for some kind of rituals; a teenager’s journal that outlined the terrible pain & cry of his heart as he wrote about his innermost turmoil & longing to be accepted; & many other sad reminders of the previous occupants’ broken lives. Our team worked hard & at the end of the day the physical changes in the house, were very obvious.
We knew that physical cleaning was important, but even more so, this house needed spiritual cleansing. So back in we went with our team to pray & ask God to restore this house to be a dwelling for His Holy Spirit. One of the prayers that were prayed during that time went something like this: “God, we ask that you will bring into this house a family who will model family values for the rest of the community”. There was a young family that moved in shortly afterwards with a little baby boy.
That little boy, at the time of the wedding, was 14 years old & had an 11 year old sister. Together, they were attendants at their parents wedding as they shared their vows in front of 300 of their family & friends, on the beach, West Coast of Vancouver Island, in early September! Other couples are now talking about getting married & having the wedding take place in the community. God answered our prayers of 14 years before!
